HARGEISA, 20 September 2009 (Somalilandpress) – Conflict and dispute are part of life. There is no society, community or country which does not experience conflict at some time or another as part of daily interactions. Therefore it is not surprise that conflict arises when people are engaged in competition to meet goals which are perceived to be, or are in fact, incompatible. Whether a conflict becomes physically and emotionally damaging or leads to growth and productivity depends on how it is managed and resolved.

Having said that Somaliland is not an exception and it is part of our growing democracy and development that a dispute arises at any given period of time, but the one million question is: Do we need a conflict at this time which leads to destruction and instability or we need to learn conflict resolution measures? It is clear that our political deadlock and disputes must be resolved and agreement must be found or a compromise worked out. Somaliland is built on these two things-compromise and agreement-which are surely what all somalilanders are proud of and what distinguishes our country from many parts of Africa.

We know that conflicts do not simply erupt, rather they develop through various stages and in each of these stages certain factors contribute to the possiblity of conflict. It was the delay of the elections which is and was the real root of our dispute, this lead to the bigger dispute between the government and the election commission aside and the political parties which led to the expulsion of Interpeace from the country. The situation deteroriated when the memebers of our parlaiment unfortunately,took guns and pointed pistols on each others face. This barbaric and evil act of educated Mps in an elected house is something shameful to our country and to our people and it surely put things in another face. My point is not to tell what was right and what was wrong because now it is forgone conclusion and only a fool looks back and cries over spilt milk, while a wise man thinks for the future and what lies beyond it.

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Honourable president, leaders of opposition parties, the election commission and the two houses-elders and the parlaiment- you are a sample and the young generation surely will take the path you took. If you take a very dark path the young generation and those who will born will curse you and say bad things about you. On the other hand if you lead us towards understanding, compromise and forgiveness you will be thanked not only by the people but by the dignity of humanity and by the loved land-Somaliland. Should you therefore understand each other’s position accurately, and become willing to discuss your disputes, resolve the conflict regardless of your disagreements the nation will be saved otherwise it is clear that we are taking the wrong path. You must come to the negotiating table and try to reach mutually satisfying solutions which of course you can, but it is if your become Real Men, not Male but Men. This country doesn’t need another bloodshed war, evacaution and refugees. We are tired of wars, poverty, ignorance, Diseases and Backwardness. We have enough experience of fighting and disturbances, instability and disagreement. If you remember back 20 years ago, you could have stamped yourselves “GUILTY” for fighting against what you fought for, but I know that it is difficult for you to look back and read the history, because simply you don’t care what is happening.

We are a population of three and half million, therefore killing one innocent person means killing of those numbers, because I am sure that all of us will suffer from the pain of the mistakes of one person or many and we will be the victims. The somali proverb says ” Inta nabadi joogtaa ninba laba nin leegyahay” when there is peace, everyman is just as proud and as strong as two men, but when conflict and war happen-Allah may not bring it Insha Allah- each man becomes tinier than an ant, so weak and ill.
Let us understand each other for we are muslims and brothers and please let us Fear Allah because he told us that Killing and Conflict are the actions of shaytan-the devil.

Let me underline the techniques of conflict resolution which may be applicable to our situation, and mind you this is not from my bocket but it is internationally observed techniques which helped settle many problems worldwide.

1. The conflict must be clearly defined.
2. All concerned or affected must understand it.
3. Mediators must look for “win-win” where all parties to the conflict feel that they have gained something.
4.Mediators and the politicians must act at the right time before things get worse.
5.Finally, the results must be checked out and the agreement must be fully introduced and applied.

Last but not the least, We as civilians are so worried about our wrong actions and disputes and we are requesting that all politicians focus on shared needs and goals and let their differences and interests aside and reach a joint decision. Any one who have seen the drought and lack of water in the country,will not argue this time but he/she would begin saving the nation. Somaliland needs positive thinkers who can fulfill their mission and not selfish leaders who only see their interest and care nothing. To save our nation, medatiors must strive for a win-win negotiating strategy so that all parties can be satisfied with the outcome. My last words goes to politicians who are misleading the innocent civilians: Please respect our people, land and territory. We shall not accept from you any wrong doings rather we shall act jointly and tell who is wrong, and remember that Allah is watching you and you will be judged of your own doings and killing innocent people. Fear Allah and for his sake save the nation and let us not go back to the dark ages.

Ahmed Mohamoud Elmi (shawqi)
shawqi04@hotmail.com
Sana’a R.O.Y

1 COMMENT

  1. are these people serious, why do they ignore the underling problem, the cause of all the conflicts in somaliland which is not political but is tribal

    somaliland is not european country stop deluding yourself and stop insulting our african brothers

    "Somaliland is built on these two things-compromise and agreement-which are surely what all somalilanders are proud of and what distinguishes our country from many parts of Africa."

    Definition of delusion:

    A delusion is an unshakable belief in something untrue. These irrational beliefs defy normal reasoning, and remain firm even when overwhelming proof is presented to dispute them. Delusions are often accompanied by hallucinations and/or feelings of paranoia, which act to strengthen confidence in the delusion. Delusions are distinct from culturally or religiously based beliefs that may be seen as untrue by outsiders.

    “There is nothing in the world like a persuasive speech to fuddle the mental apparatus and upset the convictions and debauch the emotions of an audience not practiced in the tricks and delusions of oratory”
    mark twain

  2. Dear Amal, the conflict in somaliland is not tribal but it is political. where do you see tribes contesting and creating disputes. we have forgetten tribalism , not all of us but most of us and the remaining number are ready to give up soon. it is not illusion rather it is the reality. if it was illusion why Somalia and many african countries fight each other and refuse to negotiate.
    and hope that you will revise your defintion which is totally unsuiatable.

  3. We still have tribal problems eventhough it isn’t as wide spread like in the 90s. We sill have small group of us who have no objectives but their gool is to gain clan interest. In Somali culture, clan was always there and it will be there for long. At least we can minimize it.

    Did you watch Somalia Prodise Destroyed. It shows you what had happened from 1960 to 1990. Somalis were not forseeing how their country Somalia now breaks into regions like Putland, Somaliland and Southland would be destoyed.

    It says Siyad Barre, Ali Mahdi, Aydid and the Snm were what caused Somalia destructions. Either you disagree or agree is not the point. The point is no one forsee the dangerous road that Somalia was heading.

    Somaliland became peaceful because snm had transfered power to citizen of Somaliland. Mahamed Ibrahin Egal(Ilaahey ha u naxariisee) had taken over. Because he was well educated Somali and had alot of experience, Somaliland made it. He had face problems in 1994 but he made it.

    Now we shouldn’t take any chance that would lead to what had happened to Somalia happen to Somalilnd again.

  4. I'm happy to see how inventive people and natural country we have. I don't surprise to see that hearing the name of Somaliland but I'm happy to see the development they reach at the side of political, whereas Somalia still suffereing corrupted political and clan. therefore comparing the situation in Somalia to Somaliland is not even same but If Somallanderes although I'm not happy happy giving this name of Somaliland people but if they suporting the development of their land and bringing peace to their people a, and stlll remember we have same blood that we are brothers and don't forget, brother to brother don't refuse each other the honey..! by Saydka