HARGEISA, 27 October 2009 (Somalilandpress) – As every body aware of, human being are different from in-terms of behaviors, norms, believing and acceptance, it suits our purpose that every one of us likes to clearly stimulate all kind of crucial features that the previously successful people are suited which corresponding to your perspectives on your past, present and future, despite complexity of social related factors which providing an integrated framework that brings use closer to achieving true predictive power for good social behavior system.
Understanding our basic personality profile also helps us to understand clearly defined what sorts of people we are likely to be compatible with. If you are highly extraverted and desire a lot of social stimulation, you may have a hard time living with someone who is highly introverted, finds it difficult to socialize, and prefers solitary activities, because people who are more easily anxious and depressed have to take extra good care of themselves, particularly with regard to making sure their basic needs are met if they are to maintain a good mood and positive outlook during stressful times.
The disagreeable people run the risk if not fully respecting the needs of the other people around them. Easygoing, generous people may find themselves becoming resentful of others, while more self-centered people may find that people are resentful of them. Relationship with someone who is close to you but after a few times you cannot able to meet with that person who is close to you. This is a big issue that how to maintain long term relation ship with your old friends because relationship can play an important role in any filed such as business relation, family relationship, old friends are those who are always with you after the marriage or before the marriage or any other social related activities that you personality need a integrated support which is inevitable to obtain before and aftermath.
We all have a mental picture to periodically evaluate were we are, how we look, what we’re good at, and what our weaknesses might be. We develop this picture over time, starting when we are making privately discussing to your self what you already accomplished and what you are not, to know the term of self-image is very crucial because is used to refer to a person’s mental picture of himself. A lot of our self-image is based on interactions we have with other people and our life experiences. Thus, mental picture which means our self-image contributes to our self-esteem.
Self-esteem is all about how much we feel valued, loved, accepted, and thought well of by others and people with healthy self-esteem are able to feel good about them, appreciate their own worth, and take pride in their abilities, skills, and accomplishments by ignoring other meaningless evaluation which is not suited to clearly define publicly according Somaliland evaluation basic terms. People with low self-esteem may feel as if no one will like them or accept them or that they can’t do well in anything.
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We all experience problems with self-esteem at certain times in our lives especially during our teens when we’re figuring out who we are and where we fit in the social picture images. The good news is that, because everyone’s self-image changes over time, self-esteem is not fixed for life. So if you feel that your self-esteem isn’t functioning well, you can improve it by absorbing all required terms which apparently improves our self esteem standings accordingly.
No one would argue that being in relationships has the potential to cause enormous mental pain and agony. What’s worse is that when we continue to live in such relationships, we rob our lives of the energy and enthusiasm that could have shaped our lives so much differently than what it ultimately becomes because such relationships are in need of serious repair.
Social relationships without human being perspective boundary can be magnificent
Love, trust, and respect uplift our souls, make our lives more fulfilling and meaningful, and make us thankful for our relationships that encompass our credibility which is the over all conscious purposes because we manage the pain and pleasure associated with such relationship and it’s actually quite simple in theory at least. You manage a relationship by actively working on it and by constantly renewing it. If you are even moderately practicing social distinguished criteria, you know how that works and remember; this makes you to nickname a controversial person.
You see, most of us manage relationships in a default mode. That’s the mode that we learn and develop subconsciously while growing up; mostly this scary fact applies to only a small fraction of people because the result of bad relationships can lead to devastating consequences that finally separates the union of a young nation who are generously going to demonstrate further historic or tangible progress in all social human needs aspects.
Eventually, this will intensifies an enormous pressure to stop the most devastating behavior for social impacts because having good communication based on healthy relationship is driven from the Islamic regulation principles that will enables us to solve all undisclosed social relations which confronted us through consultation and mutual understanding against social ethics such as poor communication, misperception, miscalculation as well as anxiety in order to heal completely and it no longer constitutes a sufficiently differentiating factor to clearly instructing what is good and what is bad and the advantage of common senses for our communities and youth. But my major propose behind to write this article is to share my youth collogues to jointly strength adequately the human relationships which is the prime factor that allows every nation to succeed their goals and achievement.
I wish you the strength of all elements
Written by:
Ahmed Duale Warsame
Hargeisa Somaliland
It is not easy to have a positieve behavior while you are living backward environment. My job as a social worker and counselor, the behaviour of peoples personalities are amazing.
I remember a particular day that we are mediating a conflict b/w poor family. The wife suffered her husband as she asked the bill, he beat her. She shows us while he was chewing kAT and setting eye sore place. She disteressed and said ” I don’t know how my children will survive.
You will never be successful unless you would change some of your bad behaviours in to good.
May Allah guide us,
Fahan (Oday)
Hargeisa, Somaliland